What Husbands Really Want: Insight Into a Man’s Heart
Let’s be real—marriage is a journey of discovery. And one of the most important aspects of that journey? Understanding your spouse’s deepest needs. In the latest episode of The Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast, Duane and Nadine Stewart pull back the curtain on what husbands truly want in marriage.
Duane speaks from the heart, offering a rare, honest glimpse into the desires of a husband’s soul. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about chores or football on Sunday. Husbands crave things like respect, encouragement, intimacy, and space to grow—things that build them up not just as partners but as men of God.
What Do Husbands Really Want? Let’s Break It Down:
- Respect: It’s more than just a buzzword. Respect communicates value and trust. Duane shares practical ways wives can show respect in everyday moments, strengthening their husband’s confidence and leadership.
- Encouragement: Everyone needs a cheerleader, but for husbands, encouragement feels like fuel for their purpose. Find out how a simple “I believe in you” can transform your marriage.
- Desire and Intimacy: Beyond physical connection, husbands want to feel desired. This sense of being chosen by their wives creates emotional intimacy that stands the test of time.
- Space to Be Themselves: Husbands flourish when they feel free to grow into the men God called them to be. Learn how to strike a balance between independence and partnership.
- Patience and Communication: Let’s face it—men and women communicate differently. This episode dives into how wives can cultivate patience while creating a safe space for their husbands to open up.
Why This Matters
When wives take the time to understand and meet these needs, it not only strengthens their husbands but also elevates the entire marriage. A thriving marriage glorifies God and leaves a lasting legacy of love and faith for future generations.
Actionable Tips From This Episode
- Speak Life Over Your Husband: Use words that uplift and affirm his value.
- Celebrate His Wins (Big or Small): Show him that you’re in his corner, no matter what.
- Prioritize Quality Time: Intimacy isn’t just physical—it’s about feeling connected.
- Pray Together: Invite God into your marriage, and watch how He works in both of your hearts.
- Create Space for Vulnerability: Let your husband know it’s okay to share his feelings without fear of judgment.
Final Thoughts
Marriage is a partnership where both husband and wife bring their God-given uniqueness to the table. When we understand and meet each other’s needs, we’re walking in alignment with God’s perfect design.
If you’re ready to take your marriage to the next level, tune in to this episode here. Share it with your spouse or a friend who might need this encouragement—it could spark a transformative conversation!
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